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Notes from a Broad |
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Communication(and lack thereof)
Monday December 7 One of the biggest problems I had with the languages was that I never knew which one I should be listening for. Some would address me in French because I'm white, those that didn't know French would speak Zarma, and those that knew a little English would jump at the chance to practice it. My French is poor enough that I need to make a concious effort to hear it when it's spoken, and obviously I didn't understand much Zarma. Usually after a few failed attempts at communication I'd get Eric's attention and he'd bridge the gap.
Conversations in Niger are very different from conversations in the States. We tend to focus on the functionality of communicating, especially when we're speaking to strangers. The cashier at the grocery store may get a perfunctory "Hi, how are you?", but Americans generally want to get business taken care of as quickly as possible. In Niger, the greetings may take several minutes. "How is your health? How is your family? How is your work? How is the heat? Are your chickens fat? Are your fields growing well? How is your visit? Do you like Niger? How is America?" etc. Hand-shaking and touch are also a big part of conversations there. Most people shake hands at the beginning and end of a conversation and usually a few times in between, also. It's not unusual there to see two men holding hands while they speak to one another, or children to walk around with their arms around each other. Handshakes also differ by region. Someone out in the bush will touch his fingertips to his chest after each handshake to show that you're in his heart. A bartender from Ghana named Oussman had a whole snap/chest touch combination he always did, like a secret handshake for someone's tree fort. The language barrier was pretty substantial, but everyone in the world recognizes a genuine smile, and I found it to be the quickest way to render language differences inconsequential. |
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